Falling in love is easy. It is exhilarating. It is one of the most intoxicating free falls that a human can experience.
The rush, the intensity, the flutters, the pounding heart, the speechlessness, the openness, the vulnerability—and yet the profound safety.
Falling in love is easy because it all starts with a glance, a touch, a story, a laugh—a moment that feels indescribable and undeniable.
It fills you up and leaves you breathless.
Falling in love is easy when everything seems to fall perfectly into place, bringing two separate souls together as one.
Many of us know what falling in love looks and feels like. Our stories, movies, and poetry all paint a glorious picture of what is “supposed” to happen when it’s “right.”
For some, falling in love has become an art form—a personality trait. It’s something they do over and over again.
They live for all the feels, all the firsts, for every special moment and every thrilling free fall.
You know, the meet-cute—that moment in a movie when the two main characters meet, and something special happens.
We are groomed to believe that true love is all about the falling.
We know how to fall in love, but we don’t know how to BE in love.
Falling in love is easy, but being in love—that is the real blessing.
It’s about collecting years of those moments: free falls, vulnerability, anger, annoyance, forgiveness, passion, solitude, disappointments, pain, and the many other emotions and experiences that come with a deep relationship.
It’s feeling safe to show the worst parts of yourself and yet inspired to be your best.
Falling in love is easy until you’re no longer falling, and the work of being begins.
But it is the being that makes us rich, gives us depth, and leads to the deepest joy. It takes us beyond the surface.
The Connection to the “7-Figure Poor” Mind
The “7-Figure Poor” condition is as much a state of mind as it is a financial reality, and it shows up in many areas of life.
This perpetual cycle of falling but never landing—never being—is one such mindset.
It’s the frustration and emptiness of always chasing the next free fall, feeling bored, small, or lost in the being.
The inability to be in love—whether with a partner, a career, or a vision—leaves us drastically limited, frustrated, and devastatingly lonely.
It means never experiencing the indescribable satisfaction of looking into the eyes of someone you’ve loved for decades and seeing that knowing look reflected back—a depth and passion you didn’t even know was possible when you were falling.
The Pain of Constant Falling
This cycle of falling without landing doesn’t just show up in romance. It manifests in every aspect of life:
- Business: Being a business owner who is brilliant at attracting clients and closing deals but failing to deliver on the actual working relationship.
- Solitude: The inability to be alone—filling every hour with activity so the deafening realities of life never have a chance to settle in.
- Friendships: Collecting a host of instant “best friends,” none of whom truly know the real you.
As challenging as it may seem to fall in love, it is, in many ways, the easier part of something far more profound.
The Joy of Being
Learn how to be in love—not just with your significant other, but with your friends, family, team, clients, and yes, even yourself.
Remember: the greatest joy isn’t just in the falling. It’s in the landing, the being, the growing, the discovering, the work, and the rewards. That’s where the deepest fulfillment lies.
So, don’t be afraid of the work that comes with being. The rewards will be priceless!
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